Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Talk with your mate!

What about that perfect partner that waits for you somewhere, that just has to be found sometime, soon, or sooner, or later.. or what??

We all know that the high ideals we put into our relationships are partly exaggerated by romantic notions of the perfect connection, and the astonishing concept of everything just working smoothly, without any glitch, yet so exciting, and all without us putting any effort or thought into it.. What we might not realize is how much we are influenced by the romance culture put forth by our media - and how much it might interfere with us actually leading good, romantic but realistic lifes..

Check out this article on BBC about how watching romantic comedies leads to more people believing in fate and destiny and may result in couples communicating less - because it should be all obvious if you love each other, no? Shouldn't he just KNOW what I want..?

A follow-up questionaire to the reported study can be found here, fill it out, help research, help yourself, and: talk with your partner!

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